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My Story

I grew up in The Bronx, raised by a fierce Puerto Rican mom and abuela who played guitar like an angel and taught me that music could carry prayers when words failed. Life in a Pentecostal church shaped me early on, but not always in ways that felt safe. I know what it’s like to feel like you don’t belong and you have to hide parts of yourself to fit in. ​

I spent years wrestling with faith, shame, and who I was. My journey took me through the highs of creative arts, the lows of conversion therapy (never again!), and some rock-bottom moments

that left me questioning if I even wanted to keep going. Somehow, grace found me in

the mess. Instead of giving up, I leaned in. I let my wounds teach me how to heal.​​

Fast forward to today:

I’m a certified Spiritual Director and an ordained queer clergyperson with the

Metropolitan Community Churches (MCC). I earned my M.Div. from New York

Theological Seminary and built a practice dedicated to helping others find spiritual

healing and wholeness. I support folks who have been hurt by religion, especially

LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities, and anyone who needs a space where

their full self is welcome.​

 

What I Offer:

I blend various spiritual practices with a whole lot of heart, while bringing humor,

honesty, and compassion to the table. All of my work is trauma-informed. 

 

Why I Do This Work:

Because I’ve been where you are. I know what it feels like to wonder if God/Universe/Source could love

someone like you. Spoiler alert: They do! Always has. Always will. I believe healing happens when we

give ourselves permission to show up exactly as we are. My job is to create space where that kind of

showing up feels possible and sacred.​

 

Fun Facts (Because Life Isn’t All Heavy Stuff):

  • I’m a proud nerd.

  • Coffee is basically my love language. (Bring me some Bustelo, and we’re besties.)

  • I play guitar and sing.

  • I’m autistic and have ADHD. (Trust me, it keeps things interesting.)​

 

Let’s Connect:

No one’s story is too messy for grace. If you’re ready to start untangling yours, I’m here for it. Your journey matters. Your story matters. And I can’t wait to hear it.​​

© 2023 por Roberto Arnau

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